A Facebook friend of mine recently expressed how she wouldn’t date anyone with children. "A man having a child is a dealbreaker". I’m not sure if I understood where she was coming from at the moment, but sometime later I definitely got an idea. Children are blessings! How wonderful would it be to create a … Continue reading Baby Mama Drama
In the new wave of Netflix and Chill, it seems like actual "dates" have become a thing of the past. A foreign concept... I started believing that maybe women don't like being taken on dates until I lurked on a couple posts about dating in this day and age. The general consensus was, that … Continue reading Are Dates still a thing?
Major Key Alert!!! *DJ Khaled voice* One of the basic major keys of friendships and relationships and practically most things in life is, effort. How does a person become successful? Usually because they put in effort...When you want something that costs alot, you usually make an effort to save, am I right? Just think about … Continue reading Effort
The worst feeling is not knowing whether to give up or keep trying...Do you keep at it knowing that persistence can potentially bring results or do you give up because you don’t see a favorable outcome? What do you do? Have you ever felt like it was pointless to care anymore? What did you do? … Continue reading What do you do?
When do you know?....When do you know if that person is someone you want to be with? How soon should you know? When it comes to relationships, I don't personally feel like there should be a standard set time frame on when you should know. Every situation is different. There will always be various circumstances … Continue reading When Do You Know?
I really didn't have intentions to post on this topic, but I felt that it needed to be addressed and maybe it can potentially help someone. Read this sentence aloud...and actually listen to yourself. STOP THINKING TOO MUCH INTO THINGS! We all do it, now whether we all want to admit that we do … Continue reading Overthinking Things
This is going to sound funny but, I first learned about tanning (well tanning for WOC) from Karrine Steffans...or you probably know her as dun dun dunnnnnnn... SUPAHEAD. I'm not sure why or how, but somehow when I was younger I came across her book Confessions of A Video Vixen. I'm sure most of you … Continue reading Brown Girls Like to Tan Too–My fascination with tanning
"You will outgrow people, people will outgrow you. This is life and, it's ok". - unknown There comes a time in everyone's life when things that you used to do, people you used to enjoy, things that you used to like...they just don't interest you anymore. There's an old high school buddy of mine … Continue reading Outgrowing people
I'm always seeing people post about how they can't wait to graduate so that their life can be better and how their worries will end after they receive that magical piece of paper but Boy oh boy I wish someone would've told me, Getting a degree is usually not the end of your worries! … Continue reading Being A Female In A Male Dominated Industry
There are so many memes floating around regarding swirling you'd think that it's easy to be in an interracial relationship, but on the contrary it's totally not! In my opinion it takes more work than it takes in a regular relationship. Going to college in Miami, I've experienced my fair share of interracial relationships/situationships considering I've … Continue reading My Unfortunate Interracial Dating Experience 😦